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Tuesday
09Mar2010

7 Quick Tuesday Takes

Welcome to yet another Tuesday, longest day of the week.  Last semester I had school on Mondays, though, and swore to myself I would never again take Monday night classes because having Monday be your longest day of the week is just beyond stupid.  So Tuesday it is.

1. It's been months since I had a nightmare.  (Before I got pregnant, I couldn't even tell you how long it had been - years, probably.)  But last night I dreamt that my parents thought Buster was more than we could handle and so one day, when we asked them to dog-sit him, they decided to drop him off at a local shelter instead.

:(

I woke up really heartbroken at 4am, trying not to cry.  Finally I just let myself cry, figuring that might get it out of my system, and I think it did because I must have dozed off not long after that.

Buster is a handful, for sure.  But he's just a puppy.  He'll get older and better... and he's just so darn cute.  He's not going anywhere.

Sleeping on the ottoman at my parents' house.

2. Tomorrow is 30 weeks.  THIRTY WEEKS.  I feel a bit like I did when I turned 30 - sort of ready for it, sort of ready to be done with the 20s, but also a bit anxious and unsure.

3. Operation Sit and Sip continues today.  I think I've been doing pretty well drinking lots of fluids and trying to stay relaxed.  I haven't over-exerted myself, although I haven't done less than I normally do, either.  I told the hubby that I feel like my belly has grown noticeably in just the past two days.  He pointed out that hydrating might have something to do with that.  Oh yeah, duh.  So maybe it's working.  We'll see tomorrow (sonogram at 7pm tomorrow night).

4. Today at school we get to talk to the author of one of the books we're reading for class.  This means, of course, that we need to have the book finished for today which, of course, I don't.  When do I ever?  But today, really.  You can't go in to class like, "Hi, great book - well, what I read of it." Sigh.  I'm just not a good student this semester - really having a hard time juggling work, the puppy, and all the pregnancy related doctors visits.  I'll have the summer to relax (well, from school anyway) but hopefully I can work out a better schedule for the fall.  I'm thinking I might actually have to "book" schoolwork time - block time off that's just for that.  Give The Force to someone else to watch for a few hours or something.  Of course, I'd be tempted to use that time to do laundry, grocery shop, clean the house, or anything else... but I have to keep up my schoolwork so I need to figure this out.

5. I now own two pairs of maternity pants - one pair of jeans and one pair of black corduroys.  I think I might live in these for the next ten weeks.  They are far more comfortable than I imagined - and they don't look as ridiculous as I expected them to.  Go figure - pregnancy continues to be a surprise.

6. Buster has a play date today!  The hubby's mom is going to watch him today since Tuesday is our mutually longest day.  Buster has free reign of the kitchen when we're not home (there's a baby gate blocking him from the rest of the house) and the kitchen is the biggest room in the house, but it's not enough exercise for him on a daily basis.  So today he's going to the in-law's and gets to run around with their dog, Skylar, a Cairn terrier (Buster is half Cairn).  They have a great time running around and it's really good exercise for Buster.  He's a much happier and better behaved dog when he's exercised so we're trying to figure out ways to make that happen.

7. I think I've entered the phase of pregnancy where everything is a bit less great - a bit less happy glow-y than the second trimester.  Maybe it's just the worry about the low amniotic fluid from Saturday, but I just worry because now if something happens, we get a preemie.  He'll live and chances are he'll thrive, but it won't be easy and there'll always be a lot of concerns.  Plus my belly is getting bigger and every now and then I don't breathe as easily as I was.  My left outer thigh goes numb sometimes.  One of my arms always falls asleep overnight.  These concerns are minimal, but they indicate to me that they're just going to keep popping up.  My back hasn't ached for no reason for a long time, but I'm sure that'll come back.

In the end, all I really care about is that The Force is okay.  As long as he's healthy, I really don't want to complain all too much about what I have to endure to get to the end of this pregnancy.  And I know I've been lucky.  I keep getting emails about how to deal with the heartburn and hemorrhoids - but I don't have any of that.  Didn't have morning sickness, don't have people grabbing my belly or making comments all the time.  All in all, it's been pretty easy.  So if my left leg decides it wants to fall asleep once in a while, so be it.  Maybe it's just bored.

Friday
05Mar2010

Scram Thursday, and take Friday with you

So, I was in a mood.  Already.  And really trying to fight it.  Having been diagnosed with depression in my late teens/early 20s, this is something I knew I wanted to keep an eye on when I got pregnant and post-partum.  In no way do I think I'm getting depressed, but I'm just being careful and so this mood had to go.

And then Thursday happened.  But let's back up to Wednesday.

Wednesday I get a picture message from the hubby: Buster has puked up something bright lime green.  Neither of us can figure out what he ingested that is causing him to puke up this color, but he seems fine - his normal happy, puppy self, so we weren't not too worried.  (We finally figure out it was the stuffing from one of his dog beds.  Mmm, yummy.)

But then he puked more.  And again.  And just tiny bit more Thursday morning.  Great.  So lots of cleaning up there.

Work on Thursday was annoying as well, but in ways that aren't worth going into because they're only annoying to me.  In addition, I tried to get new remote entry key fobs for my car because mine wasn't working and the hubby misplaced his... yeah, but I couldn't because the transponder seems to be broken.  So tack that on to the necessary repairs for my car.  We're going to end up paying half of what a semester at Columbia costs.

So after work I head home, ready to quick change and grab Buster and head over to puppy class (agenda: leash walking!).  Instead, I come home to a hallway full of diarrhea.  (Sorry, but there's just no good way to lead into that.)  Now it was Oreo's turn to be sick.  So the hubby and I scramble to clean up and get to puppy class (only five minutes late).  Buster does a wonderful job of appearing only semi-incorrigible and we head home... to face more diarrhea.  We clean up, go out to dinner, make a quick trip to Target, and come home... to puke.  Now Oreo is puking.  Repeatedly.  And continues to gag and dry-heave and spit up white foam until around 11pm.  Every time the hubby cleaned up, she would puke somewhere else.

I Googled the hell out of "dog diarrhea puking white foam" and called the vet's emergency number.  They said it sounded like she got into something she shouldn't have and that we could bring her in if we wanted to.  We opted not to, so instead I sat and just watched her to make sure she was breathing and not seizing.

Eventually we went to bed but after an hour, Oreo woke us up to go out - so the hubby took her out.  After that, she seemed fine but we were beyond beat.

This morning both Oreo and Buster were happy, cheery, tail wagging, treat-eating puppers.  Buster was scampering around the kitchen with a rawhide and toy in his mouth (at once) while he also batted around a tennis ball.  (What can I say, he's a multi-tasking genius pupper.)  Oreo went out, had her morning treat, and happily retreated for her first nap of the morning.

It was like someone said, "Oh, are you worried about managing a baby?  Here, let's give you a little test run so you can see how you make it through."  Yeah, thanks, you can take your test run and shove it.

And Friday?  Well, Friday was going to be better, right?  And I suppose it was since I haven't cleaned up puke or diarrhea.  It's a pretty low bar for what makes a good day, but I guess it's something.  I suppose I'd rather deal with students asking inane questions and a chair that makes my ass go numb than clean up puke.

And if you want a bit more of what annoyed me this week, check out my latest at WeAreTheRealDeal: I'm Pregnant, I'm Fat - and I'm Okay

For now, I'm looking forward to Saturday.  It's sonogram time, time to pick up the framed pictures from our wedding, and time to get some work done around the apartment (baby prep!) - all very good things, all happy-making things.  So let's hang on to that.  And the Oscars are on Sunday; can't wait to see what everyone is wearing.  (It's honestly what I care about most about the awards these days since the awards themselves are mostly meaningless.)

So baby stuff, more baby stuff, and fashion stuff.  That will make for two good days as Thursday and Friday fade away...

Tuesday
12Jan2010

7 Quick Tuesday Takes

1.  This past Friday gave us a brand new episode of What Not to Wear, featuring Courtney, a woman who lost 170lbs through gastric bypass surgery.  I wrote about the episode over at We Are The Real Deal. I looooove WNTW so I was super excited for this episode and did enjoy it.  It wasn't perfect, but it was quite good - and so far I really like and appreciate the reader comments.  Getting feedback on my writing is so cool.

2.  There are a slew of commercials getting on my nerves lately.  I probably could do a list of seven of those on their own, but that would turn out sounding cranky, so I'll just mention: the sneaker commercials that spend most of their time focusing the camera on a woman's ass (it's a great ass, I'll admit, but the commercial is so objectifying that it's maddening); the sandwich commercial where the guy says to the woman, "You know I'm checking out your two, right?" meaning her two lunch choices, of course; and the cereal commercial where the mom goes on a diet because she gets stuck in a children's chair (Dear cereal company: a grown woman's hips are not meant to fit in a children's arm chair).  There are many more, but those three are the most maddening right now.

3.  To follow-up on yesterday's post, I'm happy to report that Oreo has been a super happy dog in the past two days (i.e. since we took Buster back to my parents' house for the week).  So, okay, she's not thrilled when he's here, but she's not showing any indications of permanent trauma.  Good sign.

4.  This Saturday the hubby and I have tickets to see Eddie Izzard at Madison Square Garden.  I bought these tickets last June and have just been holding onto them.  I can't believe the show is finally here!  And it means a trip into the city, yay!  Maybe we can even do dinner in the city, like a real grown-up couple with free time and a few dollars.

5.  I won a $5 Amazon giftcard from Tara over at 25 Hour Books, which I used today to order Michael Pollan's latest book, Food Rules: An Eater's Manual.  I still have to read The Omnivore's Dilemma, but In Defense of Food remains one of my very favorite books I've ever read.  I think everyone should read it.  Michael Pollan does really great work in food awareness - how what we eat affects our bodies and the world.

6.  I didn't watch The Bachelor premiere (why would I) but I can't help but stumble upon stories about the bachelorette who "cheated" on the Bachelor with a crew member.  She says nothing happened, and I understand this is generally against the rules on any reality show, but what's bugging me about this is the labeling of her as a cheater:

Bachelor Jake Pavelka, who claims he has never been cheated on, was shocked by the news. (US Weekly)

Guess what US Weekly and Bachelor - you still haven't been cheated on!  You're dating 25 women and one of them is rumored to have become friendly with a crewman and this is now cheating?  The hypocrisy here is staggering and disgusting.  It's not like the show was ever a great example of feminist thinking, but this is just beyond the pale.

7.  Yesterday I tweeted that "All web surfing roads lead back to Etsy."  No matter what I do, I stumble across links to Etsy - and then I get lost in the Etsy pool for hours.  This year is my big "house into a home" project/resolution, so I think next year will be the year I get my personal style back into shape.  It really tanked when I went to grad school and gained weight.  I had little reason to get dressed nicely most of the time and, as I put on weight, I just got depressed and felt like nothing looked good (I even hated buying new clothes).  I used to relish dressing and accessorizing - now it's more like, "Eh, whatev."  But I feel the pull when I look at personal items on Etsy - scarves and rings and dresses (in plus sizes!).  I don't know what my body will do after I have the baby, but I'd like to obviously lose the baby weight . . . and then some.  I think next year will be the perfect opportunity to re-style myself.

Monday
11Jan2010

The Puppy and the Princess

This was our first weekend having Buster, our new Yorkie/Cairn puppy, home with us.  We're acclimating him to our home little by little for two key reasons:

1. He's a puppy and requires a lot of care right now - more than we can give him on some work days.  Some days we have a nice alternating schedule that means we don't see each other as much as we'd like, but we will be around for the puppy.  But for now my mom, who isn't working, can spend all day with him at her house.

2. Oreo.

See, Oreo is a princess - an eleven year old princess.  She rules her domain while accepting help from no minions.  She is not-so-at-large (about 13 lbs on average) but quite in charge.

Being eleven, Oreo does not like to play very often.  She'll play fetch and throw her rawhide around once in a while, but not at the rate and frequency of a terrier puppy.  And she doesn't like being bothered by other dogs.

Oreo and Buster met twice previously at my parents' house, then this Friday we brought Buster to our home for the whole weekend.  To give you an idea of how different Buster and Oreo's activity levels are, my parents' nickname for Buster is Zippy.  Oreo's is Old Lady.  So, yeah.

The basic issue is that Buster wants to play with Oreo . . . because he wants to play basically any time he's awake.  And if you don't play with him, he will keep bothering you - jumping up, nipping at you, and so on (stuff we are trying to train against, in case you were concerned).

Oreo is pretty patient so while he jumped up and down yapping at her, she just stared at him . . . until she had enough.  And then she barked back.  And that was when we became that house that has two barking dogs.  Oh hell no.  So I started working with Buster on not barking at Oreo.  Oreo already only barks when another dog is bothering her; she's well trained, so that's not a concern - but she will defend herself against the twerp jumping at her.

Other than that, though, Buster was very good considering he's only two months old.  We "puppy-proofed" the house as much as possible, but he still ended up being attracted to chewing on a few remaining wires and we are still working on the housebreaking.  He's VERY good at peeing on the paper (his foster mom did a great job paper training him) . . . uh, but he needs some work on where he makes his other deposits.  Once it's warmer out and we can walk him, that will help . . . but for now we're just keeping an eye on him, putting him on the paper, and cleaning up regularly.

So it's not Buster I'm worried about; it's Oreo.  She is an old lady, even though Shih Tzus can live ten to eighteen years, depending on health and size.  I would like Oreo's golden years to be happy ones - and I have no doubt she'll acclimate to Buster; it's just going to take a little while.

On Saturday, after a round of barking, she finally nipped him on the nose - at which point he yelped, backed up, and wandered off.  He then bothered her noticeably less on Sunday, which I'm hoping means she adequately asserted herself and he's learning his place.

Mom? Oreo sent me to my room.

Okay, actually, he goes in his crate by himself.  He actually likes it in there.

I'll just stay out of Oreo's way now . . . at least for a minute.

Tuesday
10Nov2009

7 Quick Tuesday Takes

1. The student center at work smells like sweaty teenagers.  Seriously.  Like you're walking inside a high school student's gym sock.  *gag*

2. I torture myself by reading Cupcakes and Cashmere.  I will never look like her.  I will never be able to pull off that kind of style.  I wouldn't even be comfortable in her shoes, but I love them.  I will never have her legs or her hair.  She and Rebecca Woolf make me wish I was a California girl, even though I don't really like California.  See?  Torture.

3. I really, really, really wish I could pull off this necklace:


Source: The Black Spot Books on Etsy


But there's no way.  That's far too bold for me and my style (not to mention it's $325).  But maybe I can get away with wearing just one?

Source

4. I left work early yesterday for a doctor's appointment so the email I got at 2:30pm asking me to do something for tomorrow didn't get to me until right now (i.e. "tomorrow").  Oops.  Time to get cracking.

5. I had to give one tube of blood at the doctor's office (so they can check my thyroid - they recently upped my medication for it) and it took FOUR STICKS OF THE NEEDLE (two in each arm) to find a good vein.  FOUR.  I felt like a pin cushion and now I have a bruise (which I rarely get from needles).  Le sigh.  I hope the bloodwork comes back okay.

6. My parents bought my husband a puppy for his birthday!!  The hubby has always wanted a Yorkie because he grew up with them and just loves them.  Someone my parents go to church with, her dogs just had puppies.  The mom is a Yorkie and the dad is a Cairn:

Don't they look like such loving parents???

The puppies look like Yorkies, which makes me wonder if they'll act like Cairns.  The hubby's parents have a Cairn and he is craaaaaaaaazy.  We might be in for it, but my mom said she'll keep the puppy for a few months and crate train him for us (since she's not working and our schedules are packed through December).

7. And, no, the puppy wasn't the "SO MUCH MORE" I've been talking about.  In fact, it was even a surprise to me!  But do you know what's not a surprise to me?  Tomorrow!  Tomorrow is the BIG ANNOUNCEMENT day!  Big.  Like, this blog will never be the same big.  Seriously.

Source

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