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Thursday
Aug052010

BlogHer Prep

I got highlights last week (with a new stylist in my ongoing pursuit of a good hairstylist).

I did laundry on Tuesday so my one pair of jeans that mostly fits was clean as well as my other pair of jeans that almost mostly fits.

Today: I got a mani, pedi, and eyebrow wax and bought some jewelry at Target so I could jazz up my outfits.  I can't afford new shirts and shoes right now because I haven't gotten any maternity pay in a month (eep) so I'll be wearing stuff I already owned, which is fine.  It actually feels more genuine, in a way.  And I'm excited to have new jewelry to wear.  I even bought two "statement rings" - something I never wear.  It'll be a fun little edge to add to my normal way of dressing.  I even bought new mascara and lip gloss (lip gloss being something else I rarely wear).  And I bought a belt so that my jeans that nearly fit can at least stay up.

I've already put my conference pass in my purse because my fear is getting there and realizing I forgot it.  I left myself a note reminding myself to leave Kate my house and car keys so she can take Nate for a walk with the stroller tomorrow if she wants to (and if it's not a zillion degrees).  I explained to Nate that Mommy will be away for two days, but she'll be home for bedtime (he falls asleep every night between 11pm and midnight).  Then I cried.  (Yes, the mascara I bought is waterproof because I'm pretty sure I'll cry a few times in the next two days.)

I think I'm as ready as I could be.  I know what I'm wearing, when I'm leaving, where I'm going, what I'm seeing when I get there, and who I'll be missing.  Bring it on, BlogHer!

Friday
Jul022010

Searching for inspiration

For an upcoming project of sorts, I have to think about who my style inspirations are.  (Can't really talk about the project yet, but I will when I can.)

I used to read fashion magazines monthly and regularly perused gossip blogs, always checking out what celebrities were wearing.  But that was a while ago and as I tried to think about whose style I find inspirational, I drew a blank.  Then I sat there and boggled over the fact that I was drawing a blank.  I realized in that moment one major reason why I was having such issues with style in the past year or two: I had stopped looking and trying.  I really didn't aspire to a certain look anymore, where I used to admire certain styles and actively work to imitate them a bit while making them my own (all while working within the constraints of available plus-size clothing, which is not easy).

So as I tried to think about whose style I liked, one person kept coming to mind.  Well, more like one character - specifically, one vampire: Alice Cullen.

I want that shirt. I want that scarf.  I WANT those gloves.  I WANT that hair.  (I actually plan to grow out my hair for a little while, but I still covet that hairstyle even though my hair would never hold that look without a ton of product, alas.)  The photo also makes me want to move to the Pacific Northwest so I could live in the misty fog and have a regular reason to layer, but I digress.

So as I looked for pictures of Alice Cullen, I realized they're hard to come by and I mainly love my vague recollections of Alice in the films and the descriptions of her in the books so I don't know how helpful it is to list her as a style inspiration... nevermind the fact that, you know, she's not real.

So I'm off to try and remember who my human style inspirations are.  Meanwhile, I'm looking forward to what Alice has in store when I go see Eclipse next week.

Do you have style inspirations?  Are they realistic?

Thursday
Jul012010

Is this an adult onesie?

Tooling around online yesterday, I came across this ad in the middle of a news story page:

Um.  I don't get it.  Where would I wear this to?  Why would I wear it?  What purpose does this item of clothing have?  Do I wear pants over it?  If so, what's the point of the bottom part?  If I don't wear pants over it, then where would I wear this?  To bed?  It looks like a onesie for adults, although I can't tell if it's got a snap crotch.  If it does, then this is a onesie for adults.  If there aren't snaps, then how hard is it going to be to go to the bathroom?

At first I thought it was me.  After all, I do spend all my time with someone wearing a onesie, so maybe I was just seeing them everywhere now?  But no, it's not me.  This is a real thing.

Onesies for babies?  Fantastic.  But for adults?  I'll pass, thanks.

Thursday
Apr082010

Feets, don't fail me now!

I may quite possibly have an event to attend this weekend (*cough* baby shower *cough*) so I needed to get a pretty outfit together.  If there was no such thing as cameras, I'd be going in jeans, a pretty shirt, and flip-flops.  BUT, of course, there will be a zillion pictures taken and I'd like to look worthy of the "pregnant glow" cliche.

So I set out to find either a) a really pretty/cute blouse to wear with my black maternity pants or b) a really pretty/cute dress.  The problem here is that it's nearly impossible to find attractive plus-size maternity clothes.  I don't know how the maternity shops are near you, but the one near me has such an eensy weensy teeny tiny plus-size section that I sometimes wonder why they even bother.  The store is fairly big, but I'd say 90-95% of the merchandise is straight-size only (no lie).

Thankfully, I haven't gained much weight so I'm okay with the two pairs of pants, two pairs of jeans, and few tops I bought.  Most of the time I still just wear tops I already owned.  But this was different; I needed something pretty and special - and, hopefully BLUE (because I love blue but also since The Force is a boy, I'm guessing the shower might be blue-themed, especially since everyone knows blue is my favorite color).  My bridal shower had a Tiffany blue theme and even TJ (then 5 months old) was stylin' to match:

I look sleepy and TJ looks concerned.
(Funny enough, I wore that shirt and those earrings to work yesterday.)

So I went to the maternity store, time and again, looking for something, anything - with no luck.  Then one day, I see this dress on a mannequin:

Perfect!  Navy blue, adorable, not too cheesy... the problem?  Only in straight sizes.  Damn!

But I looked at it and thought maybe there's a chance... so I grabbed an XL and into the dressing room I went and, miracle of miracles, it fit AND looked cute!  I sent a quick picture message to my sister, confirmed it was cute, and bought it right away.

But then there was the problem of accessorizing.  I definitely needed a little cardigan to go over it (I only owned black ones) and needed to figure out shoes.  I found a little white cardigan pretty easily (would have preferred navy, but couldn't find one) but I did NOT want to wear white shoes (ew) and if you've ever looked for navy shoes, you know the pickings are slim.  They're either good to wear with denim or if you need something in the orthopedic range.

On top of that, it was around 90 degrees yesterday (seriously, wtf??) and I believe my feet and ankles were a bit swollen.  Lovely.  I've been lucky with that so far, but I think my luck just ran out.

So I headed to shoe Mecca - aka DSW - and perused, coming across these lovely, cool shoes:

1. Dr. Scholl's Habit Flat (in platinum) - this is what I bought to wear to the shower.  (As an avid Clinton and Stacy watcher, I know that my shoes don't have to match my outfit, they just have to go - and these, as a neutral metallic, go.)

2. Kelly and Katie's Midnight Navy Flip Flop - I bought these too, shhh.  But they're seriously the most comfortable flip-flops I have ever tried on.  They even have arch support!  I picture them being really useful this summer as I'm home on maternity leave and taking the baby (or the dogs) out for a walk.

3. Penny Loves Kenny Cami Flat - I didn't buy these, but I fell in love with them because they remind me of the shoes I wore to dance class when I was little.  I tried them on and they looked terrible on my feet but I stood and looked at them for another minute because they're just so adorable.

4. Naughty Monkey's Tiara Sandal - First, who doesn't want a shoe named after a naughty monkey and a tiara?  These shoes were a total pleasant surprise because I expected them to look terrible on my feet, but they didn't.  Even in my hot pregnant state, they looked really pretty and dainty (no easy feat, let me tell you, har har).  I didn't buy them, though, because I have no need for them and I do need to be practical about money.  (Wah.)  But they're so gorgeous; I know I'll be thinking about them for days.

So I'm all set.  Bring on the ladies and all the ooh-ing and ahhh-ing over adorable little outfits!

Thursday
Jul302009

Things I Can't Pull Off

Well, I'm not so sure anyone could - or should - pull this off:

I mean, really - what is that about?  Why would I want to wear a wood bow-tie as a necklace?  I adore Etsy and even love looking at things that aren't my style, but this is just... Hm.  I can just see the look on my mother's face if I showed up with that on.  I can then see myself heading to the cooler for the first beer of several so as to be able to tolerate the comments for the rest of the day.

Now, this on the other hand, I also could not pull off but so desperately wish I could:

I would feel like a wood nymph who dances about, decorating herself with the blooms of the forest.

Um, except I'm not a waif, look weird when I dance about, and would be hard-pressed to find a local forest containing blooms.  Oh, and headbands never fail to give me a headache.  Alas.